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 in response to Anonymous40784...   I understand believe me.

We were blessed though. Our home is bought and paid for, a friend of ours just gave us the home. No questions asked and as for bills honestly the only ones I have big concerns about it my phone/net.

My girls papa as they call him pays our lights and when needed our lot rent. We get well water so no worries on paying that either. The phone/net is a must because my 7 yr old has problems and I'm always calling in about appointments or talking to her school about her behavior. Which is the biggest problem because they can't deal with her problems.
The net is a bigger must because I am in school online and she's starting home schooling soon. I'm praying that I can get the bill paid this month, I hope tomorrow because it's due to be cut off and I don't have the funds right now to pay it myself.

I understand about bills, I personally never dealth them other than forking over the money to my boyfriend since he's all but gave up on looking for work. Hasn't touched a want ad in almost a month and being alone with no family other than my kids, I got no place to go even if I wanted to leave.
Plus I have furry kids I refuse to leave behind, put in a shelter or adopt out.. I won't even consider temporary housing for them. they are all I have left in my life. My kids and my furry kids no one else.
I was actually told to put them up and kill them off so I wouldn't have to pay out for their needed. They are my children, my girls know them as their 3 brothers and 4 sisters. Weird I know but I grew up that way. Were family :)
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 in response to Proudmommieof2...   I understand how you feel.
Everyone wants their own children to be happy.
I feel the same way about my dogs. They come first.
Unfortunately,bills DO matter. Because, if the mortgage,utilities are not paid the children will be even more depressed than they already are. Or, at least in my opinion anyway.
However, opinions are like butt holes, we all have one.

Sending you cheer & hugs
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I feel your pain.. I've been coming here since 2009 I think.. And have yet to get help.. I've been in dire need of getting bills paid and a little help on food, christmas and birthdays and all I hear is my bills are more important.
I guess people never heard the fact that when your a poor mother with no job or income bills dont matter.. its the childrens happiness that counts
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